~*Newlyweds*~

C: Coincidentally during M and My four-year break from posting on here we both happened upon the same path. The one that lead to marriage. Not to one another but its pretty funny how life happens sometimes..

They say the first year of marriage is 'The Year of Adjustment' and I testify that in my experience that is certainly true. Even though we went the non-traditional route and lived together for quite a while before tying the knot we seem to be still adjusting to one another a little. For me though, life as a newlywed has been great. Also, its been a vast learning experience. I used to think it was just a thing in the movies but seriously, before long your 'I's' become 'We's' and you don't think of yourself as one independent being anymore... you think of the both of you and your home as one entity. He is the first thing I think of when I wake up in the morning and the last thing I think about before I shut my eyes every night. Another thing I thought was a fabrication of Hollywood was: Nothing Fights. But they are real.. and I find myself in the middle of them more often then I'd like to admit. But for all the little and not so little tweaks you need to make when you get married there is something great inside it all. My husband is the only person in the world who in an instant can make be enraged with anger, annoyed beyond forming coherent sentences, or completely perplexed by strange 'boy logic'... he is also the only person in the world who in one instant can make my fears disappear, make me 'jump up-and-down' excited, make me laugh when I'm sad, erase a crappy day at work with a hug. He is the one I want next to me for everything the rest of my life.

M:Its been a year, 8months , and 16 days time since it happened. A nice sunny day with clear blue skies and a lump the size of a walnut in my throat...I Doooooooouuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhh........(Echo)

Nervous but relieved the look on everyone's faces I'm happy they're happy more important shes happy.As a "old" newly wed (is that right?) I've been experiencing the new "old" things that my parents would do or say and be in the nothing fights, the makeups,the i do this way but you do that way,
yada yada. I see a whole new perspective on how i to live with someone you love for the rest of your life. I'm glad that i have found a center with my significant other. This marriage thing is not easy but its a fulfilling life with my wife. Allot of new adventures and little names we call things and new things to find for each other. Marriage is a beautiful journey I'm taking and a new experience for the rest of my life. Its funny how before i would only think about myself when i would find something or see something i would like but now i think man "she" would like this or man this would perfect for "her" or man "she" needs to hear about this. A tough road its been so far what with agree to disagree finding like terms within our understanding. i love my wife and its been a short while and with all the rates for divorce on the up and up.... its a matter of understanding and knowing how to manage your marriage.