No means NO!

C: As I travel deeper into the dating forest I encounter many more strange creatures in my path. I once believed that the strangest animals were usually found in the outskirts of this jungle and that as I ventured deeper I would find more civilized and refined folks. Boy was I hit hard with brutal reality! I can't say that I have been actively dating for THAT long... maybe four years but I can say that in my short hike down the path of dating I have found more freaks and weirdos now then when I first began. I suppose it was the blind innocence of my first few dates, the butterflies, the nervous laughs shared, even the walk to my doorstep, all sweet moments never tainted by inapropriate proposals or complete lack of reguard and/or respect to my person. But as of right now I can say that the older guys get the more confused, and completely wrong they are about what women really mean when they are speaking to them. Granted, not ALL guys fall in this category. But I have dated a variety of different types and they all seem to be under the same, completely wrong, impression. It seems to me that the older you get, the more guys think you will jump into their back seat for a romp just because they bought you dinner. I wonder if they realize that you are perfectly capable of buying a better dinner yourself. However, you go through the motions, act impressed, let him pay, laugh at his not so funny jokes, and smile to yourself as you think about how you will "forget" to call him back when he calls you the next day. It seems like a complete waste of time now that I see it all written out like that, but we all do it over and over again for the sole purpose of bumping into the right one someday. Anyway, all that said, let me get into the real topic at hand here. Boys listen up, reguardless of what signals you picked up on a lttle while ago, or that look she may have shot at you while you were having that first cocktail.. If she says no, she simply means no. She doesn't mean 'yeah, put yout hand on my leg' or 'please drive to YOUR house when I specifically asked you to take me home right after dinner' she straight up means no. We are not 13 anymore, play fighting because we are too shy to tell you that we like you. I am constantly surprized at how many guys cant take a straight statement for what it really is. The guys I usually end up having to tolerate try and read into everything I say and come up with different meanings, but I'm a straight shooter, I say what I mean. Apparentnly its uncommon or something. *shrug*

M: When No means No hmmmmmm..........??? most dudes are mostly the ones tohave this NOT in thier minds when it comes to courting a lady. when no meansno it usually means YES !! which is confusing for most of the cavemen thatexisist in these times. persistance is a quality that i guess chicks admire.when a man does not give up to try to win her heart. course one can tell theintentions of the brute gentleman once he sees what he fancys. like incertain places this is what goes on for example in a club instead of winninga girl's heart they try to win a round trip in her pants. but i think dudesknow when no means no. when a chick avoids all contact if the situatuion hasgone from random coincidentcial encounters to phone calls, when you dancenext to a lady n they just dance away from you leaving this empty dancefloor space so everyone can see you getting owned.......or the final notewhen theres a restraining order for a distance of 100ft between you andanother lol!!!!! thats called a stalker kids....we say ..........noway!!!!......so is there a tell to know whether or not No means No do alldudes need a class to learn this about ladies there is a class its in ourexperiences....at least most dudes see this like no means no (but, your nottryin hard enough... impress me with somthin' else cause i think yourecute.... but i guess youre not doing the right thing i want in a guy blahblah barf.......lol!!!! ef that!!!..... Marklar......