Being alone is not THE END OF THE WORLD!!!!!

M: To be by the lonesome.its been a long time since a good relationship as come across my heart.As a single gentleman i see many things that are good about being alone. i have friends that have been alone along time in their playboy lifestyle in their bachelor pad they call home. there is much liberty with being single many certain things on can do like go wherever you want, eat what you want iguess, burp where it would be inappropriate, say a thing here or there to the fine female across from you. All that as a MAN is what i think are the freedoms of being single & of course the obvious flirting, looking for, the courtship journey from hello my name is to good morning. Some have been alone for years and haven't felt the yearn for another( i know they don't though). As i compile these thoughts. i see that being alone doesn't mean its the end of the world. it just means that miss. or Mr. right hasn't bumped into you yet. Or it means to be out more. For example: you would go through this coffee shop everyday what about that smoothie shop next door go n check it out change it up a little, the supermarket you go to head to another one near you re home, i guess change it up. How long is too long being alone i wouldnt know i guess i would ask my granny to answer that question shes 80.Being alone is ok but, theres something missing still maybe cause im still young .The positive, keep it up, optimistic friend can tell you that you have your family, friends blah blah blah they love you that's all you need deal...i know all of that but, damn....where is my special lady the one mainchick that makes me buff up when i see her,check my hair, dust off my shoulders,spray some binaca in my mouth two times before i see her, gives me40 as i give 60 percent, makes a fart joke when i need laugh, get well dressed to impress, open doors for, pass the guy 20 bucks to somthin a little extra, or to get the table in the far back for.......wutev.......



C: Being alone... lets see, well that covers about 90% of my life! lol Honestly I it's not as bad as it sounds, and I should know. The things that bother me the most about being alone (except for the occasional loneliness) really don't have anything to do with me specifically; it's more societies views on singles that disappoint me. Let me give you guys a 'couple' of examples... Lets say your best friends both have significant others, suddenly you don't see them anymore because they only wanna go out with other couples. Whats that about? Like you should be ashamed to have to stand on your own beside them. Like you should want to stay home bored all night rather then take that shameful walk up to the box office and weepingly ask for one ticket to the movie, and then to have to sit there all alone, with no ones hand to hold while your couple friends sit beside you. Come one, we are supposed to be more independent now then when our parents were our ages. Yes, there are certain things that I would not want to do or be seen doing alone, like eating dinner at a restaurant or going on a weekend getaway. I also love how there are these standards for girls my age, if we are single then we "must be looking". Did it ever occur to anyone that while the idea of meeting Mr.Right is almost knock-you-off your-feet amazing we may be perfectly content with the life we have at the moment? I'm so tired of everyone hinting that I am at an age now where I should be wanting to settle down and have babies (something which I do want ... one day). And another thing, people in couples are too celebrated... they get engagement parties, anniversaries, weddings, house warming parties, baptisms, dogs birthdays, etc. all occasions, I might add, that us singles attend and have to buy presents for. I would just love to know where my 'you didn't get knocked up by your boyfriend whom you now have to marry' party is?? Or maybe my ' you weren't so desperate as to marry the first loser you convinced to stay with you out of sheer convenience' present got lost in the mail. *shrug* Yes, being with someone you care about is probably the best thing in the whole world,but do we have to constantly throw things in single peoples faces and try to make them feel inferior? I think not.