Mission Impossible

C: You know all about it. You're about to go out and the group is big... here comes the headaches!! In my opinion group outings are as challenging as they are fun, but the mission of actually getting everybody together on time is part of the overall excitement. It's a blast, and even though at the moment you are probably ticked later on you just have to laugh at it. It seems to me that everyone takes on a certain role when large groups are trying to coordinate outings. For example, one of us is usually the one who alerts all of the participants as to the date and time of the event, there is someone else who decides what is the best route, another who decides what we are doing afterwards, and then my job is to bitch at everyone and try to get them at our meeting spot on time. But no matter how seemingly seamless and organized any group outing may appear to be it will undoubtedly turn into absolute chaos, anarchy, and in some cases death. All of course are resolved and forgotten about as soon as you begin the voyage to the appointment at hand. I have to say that no matter how minuscule the outing is, I can always count on some whacked out adventure on my way there. It usually goes something like: (Ok, we are supposed to meet at my place at 7:30 p.m.) At 7:15 I have to call my friend J to see if she is already on her way, surprise surprise she is still in the shower. Then I call Y to see if he is ready yet, yes he is already close by. 'F' texts me that he is parking outside my house. My sister just walked in and tells me she needs to take a shower and blow dry her hair, to which I re inform her as to the previously stated time to be ready. I ask my bro if he wants to tag along, no he has plans. I'm putting my shoes on when J calls me back. She is gonna leave to my house in five minutes and is unsure of the whereabouts of M. I call M while I put my make- up on, Y arrives and starts watching T.V. in the living room with F, I get no answer so I leave a VM. My sis strolls out of the shower and starts looking through her library on limewire instead of getting dressed. I fix my hair quickly as J arrives complaining about the reservation that we are surely gonna miss. She asks Y to call M and see what his status is. I'm ready but J needs me to do her eye make-up before we leave, my sis has just started to get ready. F walks in and asks who we are waiting for, and all three of us start complaining about what M could possibly be doing. About 7 minutes after that everyone is ready and waiting on M. call after call is received and ignored, so you know we are getting steamed. And yet he always seems to walk up in there like he has been waiting on us lol. Gotta love it!




M: Where can i start bro...i think that " group meet ups " are cool. Whats better is the way everyone gets together. Now i understand that this doesnt happen in most parts around the world. I can kind of guess how everybody in a circle of friends meet up. We here in the good ol' spot!!!word........have a weird way of getting together. when EVERYONE is getting ready to get together it is nuts and may i say fun at the same.ahem......theres always some type of DRAMA that occurs when everyone is getting to the destination. like when there's a certain time to be there but everyone gets there late. I for one am not late to these meet ups.......YEAH RIGHT GUYYY......if you look for the definition of late in the dictionary you will find my face next to it..i guess i like to make the lame-ass entrance to see everyones desperate faces & or ticked off faces to be out n about with the nightly shin-digg........ EF the Law

e-cheating??

M: can i say something CAN I ....CA...NI CAN I say something its is not cheating..........i think that online chat is not at all cheating. i mean nothing is happening and theres no physical action going on . its like a virtual "tease" & you cant have it. Cheating?......is it super wrong to make friends guy?...is it? damn it.......its not my fault i was born this hot. i might as well share it with the rest of the world of ladies. chicks do it too n yet its cause they have to explore "more opportunities out there" ha ha!!!! so why am i so wrong to do it........i know many may say "hey you know you shouldn't be saying things like that" im like yo!!!! ef' that ish.....i know its this EMOTIONAL thirst that needs to be quenched........(oh man i know theres allot of things to say about this.....ahem so.....BEGIN.......!!!)

C: There are several questions that people ask themselves when thinking about the boundaries of faithfulness. When does one wander too deep into the pool of flirtyness, and who decides where to draw the line in between just friends and something different? Does a playful bop constitute flirting? Or is a random courtesy text message just the first step into infidelity? In my opinion, the boundaries that you set for your partners are directly related to what you will allow yourself to do outside the said relationship. My personal motto is what I like to call 'the golden rule for relationships', meaning I won't do what I wouldn't care for my partner to do. Sounds simple right, it is. Of course now that there are hundreds of online dating sites, and weird chat rooms where people proposition each other the lines get slightly blurred. Not because online flirting isn't wrong, but because the people doing it feel that since there isn't a real person in front of them that what they're doing is OK. Taking into consideration that men think of cheating as only a physical encounter, whereas women take any emotional or physical closeness as cheating I will stand firm at my belief that online cheating IS cheating even if you never physically touch someone. I think that once someone else is on your mind then you aren't really being faithful. That is all, have a nice day you INTERNET CHEATERS!!! lol j/k

Well I guess this is growing up

M: AHem ......anYWAYS its really weird to say WHEN you feel like an adult.Many young lads and ladys do different things they "think" is adult like.Take for example living alone most kids have want to go out there and face the world all alone ohhhh living on your own. yes although it does create a sense of Independence theres more to it. another way of knowing "i think" when you re an adult is when you purchase big things like when you buy your first car without the help of your parents or anyone else. Close the deal on your home or what not, um?.....go on a long trip with a girlfriend/boyfriend to the Bahamas without having mom n dad around. i think when youre an adult is when your parents dont tell you anything. only the advice they can give when you ask for it. youre an adult when you are taking life into your OWN hands. make mistakes and stand up for it, youre an adult when you set up a meeting with some potential business clients, youre an adult when you assume responsibility for the chores to be done to live a life, cook, clean, go out drink safely, exorcise etc. the decisions of whether you drink or not, smoke or not, its more of a long list of things but, youre an adult when YOU feel that........no more kids meals nor big kids meal.......give me a #6

C: I feel that I have been pretty responsible my whole life, working since the age of 15, doing my chores without anyone haggling me, choosing not to participate in things that I knew were harmful despite any peer pressure. It is only recently though, that I have felt like a full blown adult. Not because of any actions, or non actions, or even because of any major purchases. The reason I felt this way is because I was thinking of things bigger then me, bigger then anyone. Let me explain... The first time I can say that I felt like a grown up was when I reprimanded one of my friends for doing something stupid, something that would have surely meant a trip to the E.R. in a couple of hours, I remember feeling like a mom.Usually I'm pretty clumsy, silly, and some might say 'juvenile' so the thought that I was thinking of someones safety when I myself, have put myself in numerous circumstances where one wrong move could land me a few broken bones was completely out of left field. Nevertheless, I proceeded to hound them about their decision until I finally received the validation I was after, a sincere apology. :D Shortly thereafter, I met and fell in love with a new baby cousin, it was that moment that led me to start thinking about how nice it will be when I have a family of my own one day. That thought really only opens the door to other thoughts, of boyfriends, and marriage, and fantasising about what my wedding will be like, girly stuff. I guess to me, being an adult, is when you start thinking about other peoples lives as much as yours, or when your actions today are for tomorrows overall prosperity. It's when you stop thinking of only yourself, and realize how special and rare things really are. It's when you want to take care of everyone you love and your priorities finally shift. That's when you're an adult.