e-cheating??
M: can i say something CAN I ....CA...NI CAN I say something its is not cheating..........i think that online chat is not at all cheating. i mean nothing is happening and theres no physical action going on . its like a virtual "tease" & you cant have it. Cheating?......is it super wrong to make friends guy?...is it? damn it.......its not my fault i was born this hot. i might as well share it with the rest of the world of ladies. chicks do it too n yet its cause they have to explore "more opportunities out there" ha ha!!!! so why am i so wrong to do it........i know many may say "hey you know you shouldn't be saying things like that" im like yo!!!! ef' that ish.....i know its this EMOTIONAL thirst that needs to be quenched........(oh man i know theres allot of things to say about this.....ahem so.....BEGIN.......!!!)
C: There are several questions that people ask themselves when thinking about the boundaries of faithfulness. When does one wander too deep into the pool of flirtyness, and who decides where to draw the line in between just friends and something different? Does a playful bop constitute flirting? Or is a random courtesy text message just the first step into infidelity? In my opinion, the boundaries that you set for your partners are directly related to what you will allow yourself to do outside the said relationship. My personal motto is what I like to call 'the golden rule for relationships', meaning I won't do what I wouldn't care for my partner to do. Sounds simple right, it is. Of course now that there are hundreds of online dating sites, and weird chat rooms where people proposition each other the lines get slightly blurred. Not because online flirting isn't wrong, but because the people doing it feel that since there isn't a real person in front of them that what they're doing is OK. Taking into consideration that men think of cheating as only a physical encounter, whereas women take any emotional or physical closeness as cheating I will stand firm at my belief that online cheating IS cheating even if you never physically touch someone. I think that once someone else is on your mind then you aren't really being faithful. That is all, have a nice day you INTERNET CHEATERS!!! lol j/k
C: There are several questions that people ask themselves when thinking about the boundaries of faithfulness. When does one wander too deep into the pool of flirtyness, and who decides where to draw the line in between just friends and something different? Does a playful bop constitute flirting? Or is a random courtesy text message just the first step into infidelity? In my opinion, the boundaries that you set for your partners are directly related to what you will allow yourself to do outside the said relationship. My personal motto is what I like to call 'the golden rule for relationships', meaning I won't do what I wouldn't care for my partner to do. Sounds simple right, it is. Of course now that there are hundreds of online dating sites, and weird chat rooms where people proposition each other the lines get slightly blurred. Not because online flirting isn't wrong, but because the people doing it feel that since there isn't a real person in front of them that what they're doing is OK. Taking into consideration that men think of cheating as only a physical encounter, whereas women take any emotional or physical closeness as cheating I will stand firm at my belief that online cheating IS cheating even if you never physically touch someone. I think that once someone else is on your mind then you aren't really being faithful. That is all, have a nice day you INTERNET CHEATERS!!! lol j/k
posted by MarklaR at
9:53 AM
17 Comments:
i don't think anything you do online should be taken seriously lmao it's just the internet.. it's not like you are out every night sleeping with a different gorl/guy and then comming home to your significant other.. whatev.
-Jiggidy
Jiggidy
Here you go again; yes you CAN cheat without touching another person. Online or over the phone, when you have a relationship with another person, outside your current relationship IT’S CHEATING! What the bloody hell, you think that being with someone is just the act of humping or making out. NO! Its commitment, honesty and sharing your feelings and emotions, your thoughts and expectations.
MI
"when you have a relationship with another person, outside your current relationship IT’S CHEATING! "
so.. when you have a significant other, you aren't allowed to have any kind of contact with anyone else, ever.. is that what i am to understand??
Online chatting is not as serious as you are making it sound.. Its people who find themselves with some time on their hands (or are just bored sometimes) "chatting" to other people in the same situation.. Not making wedding dates or anything. And yea there are some cases where people become friends online and, god forbid, hang out in person. I honestly don't think it's that big a deal. I used to talk to people online all the time, when I would go to yahoo games.. I would sometimes talk to the people I was playing games with.. I thought it was cool that I was playing online pool with someone in Australia.. Lighten up, girl.
-Jiggidy
C: I think we can all learn something from the wise words of NSYNC...
"Everytime I'm sittin home alone girl
I can't wait to get you on the phone girl (So Pick it Up Babe)
I can see everything you do.
Bouncin’ me from satellite to satellite
I love the things you do for me so late at night
you turn me on
It's like I'm right there next to you yea."
DIGITAL DIGITAL GET DOWN! JUST YOU AND ME! LMAO!!!
aight, Janel.. my bad yo.. i totally just skimmed through the original posts.. i didn't have time, i had to leave work when i started reading..
the only part i read was "online chat is not at all cheating" and i thought it was just chatting online..
anygay.. i still don't think it's a big deal.. as long as it stays on the internet, i don't think anyone is getting hurt.
-Jiggidy
C: Obviously you missed my point, so here is something to clafiry...
"Can we get connected
I need some love and affection baby,
I'll call you on the phone.
I hope that I get through.
If you're in the mood and I'm not home
here's what you do, leave a message
You know the kind I like (you know the kind I like)
To get back to you. "
I hope you now understand the gravity of the situation. There is mutany afoot!!
C.. you are such an online perv.. just like the guys of nsync!!!!! lmao
-Jiggidy
anways im happy this thingy is turning to something. and also may i add....ahem.......no one is quoting nsync guy!!!! get it over with......and if you read the lyrics well its just a COLORFUL way of saying they love & want phone sex..its in the lyrics....
(more drama insert down here.....)
- 'M'
VVVVVVVVVVVVV
OK, laddies to quote a better song on the subject. “We are undercover passion on the run
Chasing love up against the sun .We are strangers by day, lovers by night.Knowing its so wrong, but feeling so right”
IT IS JUTS WRONG!
PS Jiggidy I do love you sence of humor, perhaps you have been watching Hanna Montanna too much lately.
Nothing but love from UK
MI
According to www.Answers.com the definition of a relationship is as followed:
1. The condition or fact of being related; connection or association.
2. Connection by blood or marriage; kinship.
3. A particular type of connection existing between people related to or having dealings with each other: has a close relationship with his siblings.
4. A romantic or sexual involvement.
Why did I bring this up? Well to cheat you must be in a relationship. I just wanted to clarify what a relationship is before I attempt to classify what cheating is.
Can you cheat on-line?
I don’t think so although it may lead to cheating in real life. And that’s the mane deferent’s between the two. Until you have a romantic or sexual connection with some one other than your partner (girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, ex.) you are not cheating. Now sexual involvement on-line is impossible. But that goes without saying, unless you have an E-dick or something. Witch brings us to a romantic encounter. There’s no doubt that showing one’s emotions can take many forms whether it be song, dance, art ex. But there is one or two ways that even William Shakespeare mite have trouble with. A.I.M, myspace, chat rooms I just don’t see an emotional Connection happening.
And that’s my take ,!,,(-.-),,!,
i've never seen Hanna Montanna, but since the show and i share our sence of humor.. i think i'll check it out..
but, i think Lydacris said it best when he said these amazing, inspirational words
"I wanna li li li lick you from your head to your toes
and I wanna
move from the bed down to the down to the to the floor
and I wanna ah ah you make it so good I don't wanna leave
but I got to
let let me know wh what's your fant-tasy"
LMAO!!!
-Jiggidy
C: So I guess Jig's relationships really are primarily based on physical contact. Good call MI.
Zero, Did you even stop and read the definition, or did you just copied and pasted to make yourself sound more intellectual? There are several definitions for the word relationship , No. 3 for instance “A particular type of connection existing between people related to or having dealings with each other: has a close relationship with his siblings.” Do you understand the above mentioned sentence.
MI
i like this whole guess whos song this is game......
well, i like this one
We'll put on a show, everyone will go.
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't knoooooow....
The, parking lot, why not?
It's so cool when you're on top.
His front lawn, in the snow.
Laughing so hard, cuz...
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know.
I did her on his birthday.
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Don't tell Scotty.
Scotty doesn't knoooooow....
lol!!! yay!!! ef the law !!!
-M
C: And that's what happens when a Molongo is bored at work..
LUSTRA!!!!!!
i LOVE that song!.. it's my ring tone :ox lmao
Zero, nice usage of answers.com! and i agree totally with your opinion.. if it is only on the internet, it's fine. you can't cheat on the interent.. you can only cheat in person.
you can chat online or talk on the phone all you want with Bill Clinton.. but until you get on your knees, you are no Monica Lewinsky!
-Jiggidy
(damn, that was pretty low lol)
C: Jig, how would you feel if every night after you were done talking on the phone with your boyfriend he called up his friend (also a girl) to talk to her for an hour also???
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