Romance...Dead or Alive?

M: Romance....to narrate, to tell an exggerated story the human actionof a courtship in the same species.......Doing the little things & bigthings to woo another into a relationship...to make the other person feelthe way you feel about them. but in todays world of "tap n go" .........isromance dead? is the classic way of wooing another dead..............youknow the way i see this is that NO romance is not dead just that everyonehas curved, bent, broke, melted, mended together, split this word into thiervision. An idea of they "think" romance is"or maybe im wrong. Maybe romanceis dying not dead little by little until the whole world just becomes thiswierd tech science maditory artificial ensemenation center for those who aretoo busy with lifes office meetings, luncheons, seminars, schooling,project developments, i dont know. Maybe romance isnt dying just that youhave your way of wooing the oppisite sex without giving the obvious clues.Marklar



C: I often find myself wishing I was born in a different time. A time where guys came over to see you and wrote you little love notes whenever you crossed their minds. I am getting increasingly bored with how technology has helped to nurture the cowardice in all men and women. Instead of phone calls we send text messages or emails, what ever happened to just picking up the phone or even popping by someones house to visit? I personally feel that if you want something you gotta put yourself out there, and even if you get completely rejected at least you had the balls to get up there front and center and tell someone face to face what you have to say. In a business class I took once my proffessor told us that 'with great risk comes great reward' and I believe this to be true especially in love and romance... shouldnt you want to stand out from the crowd and do something extraordinary? Why be just another text message that she will surely ignore? I think that guys have no idea how much one miesly act of manners/romance can impact a girl. Open a door for her, give her your jacket if she gets cold, bring her a flower and watch her face. It's often the smaller tokens of appreciation that stay glued in her mind. But anyway, enough of my rant, yes... I think romance is dying. And while I can say that our technological advances have helped fuel this downfall I also cannt deny that if it were in the person's mindset then it wouldn't matter either way. This notion, however, gives me pause because if its true then that means that its not our gadgets that are nurturing cowards, its just that that is what we have become... pfft. Well... to hell with it... here is hoping there is still a pulse out there and it somehow finds me! *cheers*

Revenge...Is it worth it?

M: May i start by saying "fuck yes" do that shit i dont care who. revengeis a dish best served coldwhat.....karma is bitch and when shes takin to long to make a move for youthats when you have to take charge....word!!!!. Now i understand there arecertain points to take on wether or not the revenge is worth to takedepending on the situation. its not like youre gonna slice someone's headoff just cause they cut you off in line (but if they ever do that *shakingfists*).but yeah do it i sayand those who let these type of things just slip...to that then you might aswell let them step all over you......MARKLAR!!!!

C: In the research that I have done over the past day on this subject (no, I dont like to talk about things I know absolutely nothing about) I can say that I have many opinions on revenge. On one hand, two wrongs don't make a right. However it's not about just hurting some random person for no reason... its about getting even with someone who has wronged you. So I can't really be completely aganst that notion. I mean, even though 'the best revenge is living well' and I do believe that life takes care of dirtbags WAY better then you ever can, sometimes life takes too long. Sometimes the pain that someone has caused you is so deep and so sudden that you feel an intense urge to make them feel the exact same way, even if its by other means. I mean, we all can't wait around for months or even YEARS before some unfortunate series of events just happens to fall into their lives. We need instant gratification, we need our pride back, we need sweet revenge! I myself, have been completely obliterated a few times, so I know those evil plots all too well. They start off ever so trivial, but before you know it you're in the throws of an all out demonic plan to destroy them. I can't say that I've ever acted on it though, not in any major way, I guess I'm not the revenge type. But far be it for me to tell someone else they shouldnt fulfill their vengefull fantacies. I know I still get a chuckle when I hear about something unfortunate happening to one of the jerk-offs who screwed me over in the past, I'm sure we all do. Life does have its ways I think, of slowly and painfully killing off people who have bad hearts. That said, I think that if it makes you feel less pain, then yes, revenge is worth it.

The Snitch...

C: I admit that not too long ago I did the unspeakable, I unintentionally snitched on all the girls in my department one day at work. It wasn’t anything major but they got super upset about it anyway. Now that all is forgiven and my reputation has been slightly dented I can openly comment on it without feeling all bad again. Its funny how one tiny comment can send a bunch of girls into a hissy fit. But the whole thing got me thinking about ‘taddle tales’…is it ever okay to rat someone out? After pondering this question for countless minutes I found my answer. Yes. I believe that there are times when putting someone out there is not the most horrible thing in the world. Wait, let me explain before you think I just throw ANYONE under the bus… I think its ok when you are trying to teach someone a lesson. Sometimes people take advantage of the fact that you are “cool” with them and expect you to cover their ass on a regular basis. I think this is wrong because it becomes a habit. Covering up for a friend who messes up every now and then is fine, but having to do it all the time because they can’t or don’t want to get their act together is something entirely different. Get what I mean? Also I feel like its ok to tell on someone if what they are doing is hurting someone... like if you find out your friend is a serial killer or a child rapist or something crazy like that. Obviously those extreme circumstances are VERY rare (hopefully) so I doubt any of us will find ourselves in that situation. But yes, I think its ok to fuck someone over if what they are doing is hurting others, thats not right no matter who you are. In all other circumstances though, I feel that people wouldnt be afraid of being "told on" if they weren't doing something wrong to begin with. Maybe they shouldnt be hiding and doing things they shouldnt be.... then they wouldnt have anything to worry about. Anyway, thats how I feel about it. Peace out.

M: Well in my opinion keepin it on the Down low is a trustworthy phrase to hold up to in anywhere one might be. however NOT keeping to your word could cost you. also in most cases it could cost you your life. NOT keepin it on the DL could: get you a beat down, make everyone hate you, make the person that told you anything hate you, become the punchline to any joke made in an office, retail store, wearhouse, and so on. but i believe theres a time where theres no choice but to point out the right thing to say. a snitch is sometimes a good thing and many other times a bad thing all in all anywhere, anyplace anytime, the snitch is there and it's watching i say "it's" cause " it " can be whoever it might be just keep ya eye mo' fo's ........................................blah marklar........

Things Turn Ugly...

Ok, this is the situation. A group of friends and I are hanging out at a local bar after a fabulous dinner to celebrate one of their birthdays. Closing time sets in and one of us goes to the bar to close his tab. The remaining two are asked to vacate the bar area, so they do. After several minutes we look into the bar and the friend who was in there is approached by some drunken hoodrat. Normally this would be a situation where the other two friends would leave the guy to get a piece of ass, but he is the ride... so us two outside get a little ansy. After about 20 minutes we start talking about how he could do WAY better and how the girl is gross looking. Not knowing that the girls friends were standing right behind us. Finally the conversation between the hoodrat and my friend stopps and they walk away from eachother, I thought we were cool untill one of her friends walks up to me (like she is gonna school me) and tells me that she heard what I said and tells me I should be carefull about what I say and who I say things in front of.

C: I think both the girl in the bar, and her friends are full of shit. I think that its the dumbest thing in the world to argue with someones OPINION. What did she think I would do? Apologize?? Ok.. fine... I'm sorry your friend is ugly. LOL And furthermore, I was having a private conversation with my friends, its not my fault those chicks were up my ass listening to everything I said. To hell with them. I was just looking out, I didnt want my friend to wake up next to chubaca! ha!

M: Pussy has no face Nigga! In my opinion, when you're wasted guy, you dont care what her face looks like. You worry about that in the morning. Luckily my friend hasn't dealt with that ...yet.

Marklar Man!

Welcome to 'The Marklar Room' ladies and gentlemen. Gather round as my friend and I share our opinions on the little things that I'm sure happen to each of us at one time or another. From small things like someone using the last of the toilet paper to larger things like your friend being arrested. We will cover it all here, and with both a male and female perspective things are sure to get racey. So sit back, tell the receptionist to forward all your calls to voicemail, and let us bring some funny into a boring day at the office.