A present from the past?

C: We all have things from our past that we don't necessarily want to be reminded of; Ghosts that exist only in our memories and who we make vanish whenever they pop up in our minds. Maybe its a painful break-up, or a choice you made that you regret, maybe it's not doing anything at all when you should have. Either way its some part of our lives that we wish never happened. But what are you supposed to do when something tangible from your past intrudes on your present, forcing you to relive what happened. What do you do when the past presents itself? I was in a similar situation not so long ago and it's not an easy one to gracefully float through. The entire incident commands you to fight all kinds of emotional demons. From finally facing what happened, to deciding how relevant the issue really is to your new life. In my opinion facing the whole thing head-on is your best bet, no hiding anymore because it still hurts. Just say what you have to say and ride. I know its easy to stay stuck in a memory, but your loyalty won't do anything but hold you back from other things and in the end, hurt you. Granted, people don't move on because they want to, they do it cause they have to. But staying stagnant isn't going to do anything at all. So I guess my advice is: Should the past present itself to you... tell it to get on its knees and BLOW!


M: Drama is everywhere GUY!!!!!.....weather you try hard as hell to avoid it.. DAMMIT its there.especially when drama from the past just seems to WALTZ its way back towards you.but what to do when the past cant not just stay the past?. when whatever happend just seems to STAY stuck in your brain........ theres many ways or gettin over it .. therapy, meditation, etc...but i cant be the one to say what to say and or do. right now I'm going' through somthing like that and i have to find a way to deal with it and diminish it's wrong doings.So in turn it would not affect my daily routine and positive outcomes i look for everyday. Either way nobody likes a downer, a person living in drama LAME ef that. In the end we ourselves know the answer in dealing with past memories either forget them or suppress them ........you choose.....